Posts tagged Pastor Arlene
2023.12.24 | Christmas Eve | Be the Light

Our world is SO secular. Churches can’t compete with the pull of the secular world. We’ve lost ground every year since about 1960. Church memberships continue to drop. Doors close. Congregations fold tent. And, the trend continues to worsen and at warp speed since the pandemic unfurled.

I’ve served as the pastor of this church for over 21 years. This is my 22nd Christmas at Eden. In the good old days, we experienced our highest worship attendance during the month of December. Not anymore. People have a lot going on this time of year: shopping, parties, vacations, and more. Church seems to get in the way of Christmas for many celebrants.

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2021.09.05 | Beyond Parochialism

Like other humans, Jesus had to be challenged to think outside of the box that he had grown up in. He had to be challenged to try the food, speak the language, and imagine that the ways of his people might not be the only ways to believe or to do things.

In short, Jesus had to be healed of his parochialism, before he could expand and fulfill God’s calling to be the hope and healer of all nations.

The great irony of this story is that the tables are turned twice. Instead of Jesus instantly fulfilling the Syrophonecian’s request that he heal her daughter from the unclean spirit, Jesus has to be healed of his parochialism.

He couldn’t heal himself. He needed the help of a foreign-born, non-native speaker, from a different faith tradition. So in the end, four miracles unfold in Mark 7. . .

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2021.08.08 | Taste and See

Unless a person has experienced doubt, can they claim to have faith? Unless a person has felt despair, can they really know joy? Unless a person has gone without, can they truly be thankful? I don’t think so.

That’s why Psalm 34 is so powerful. It’s tried and true. It’s been taste-tested by our ancestors in the faith.

As a consequence, we can trust the veracity of these verses, and hold onto the hope that they exude, even when we may not yet be able to proclaim the words of Psalm 34 with our whole hearts.

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2021.02.07 | Servant Leadership

This new year and new administration offer some promise for healing in our nation, but promise is not enough. We need concrete steps and specific behaviors that contribute to the uniting of our nation and the healing of our global village. Since today is Super Bowl Sunday, I’m going to share a sports illustration.

The late great Vince Lombardi, coach and general manager of the Green Bay Packers when the Super Bowl was founded 55 years ago, is remembered by Cheeseheads everywhere for leading his team to three NFL championships and two Super Bowl wins in 1967 and 1968.

Coach Lombardi was passionate about winning. He was a talented coach and a class act. He not only wracked up a lot of wins, Lombardi also taught his players how to be winners on and off the field by teaching good sportsmanship. Consider this quote that Lombardi is most remembered for: “When you get to the endzone, act like you’ve been there before.”

Lombardi taught his players how to handle success in a manner that fostered respect, rather than garnered resentment. Sadly this teaching has been kicked to the curb by many professionals these days, and I’m not just talking about sports.

Athletics at its bests is an arena in which individuals can develop fitness, build skills, learn strategies, and most importantly develop social habits and behaviors that contribute to the success of their families and communities, our democracy, and the healing of the nations.

In some ways, talking about the value and importance of sportsmanship seems like expressing a platitude, and yet, I assure it is not. Professional sports today are often bereft of examples of good sportsmanship. And, Inauguration Day, January 20, 2021 reminds us what happens when our leaders either don’t develop or don’t practice good sportsmanship. We end up with national leaders who can’t acknowledge defeat, or look a fellow citizen in the eyes and congratulate him on his win. Why? Because they’re sore losers, and bad sportsmen.

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2020.03.15 | Those Kind of People

The Rev. Dr. Mary Ellen Kilsby, former senior minister at First Congregational Church UCC in Long Beach, California (1988−2000) was a bit of a legend in her own time. She was one of the first women to serve as senior minister in a large church in our denomination, and she was a guiding light for liberal Protestantism and progressive social justice work throughout her life.

One of my favorite stories about Mary Ellen has to do with her early advocacy for LGBT rights. She was one of the first five pastors in the UCC in California to lead her congregation through the Open and Affirming process in 1992, and she did it with style. For example, she suggested that her congregation celebrate their decision to become an Open and Affirming Church by entering the Long Beach Gay Pride parade in 1992. The Church Council agreed.

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2020.03.08 | All In

So, just for fun today...let’s celebrate our propensity for theological inquiry and our ability to question all of the answers that orthodox Christianity has shelled out by singing “the Hokey Pokey,” as printed on your bulletin insert.

You put your right foot in, you put your right foot out,

You put your right foot in, and you shake it all about.

You to do the Hokey Pokey and you turn yourself around.

That’s what it’s all about.

You put your left foot in, you put your left foot out,

You put your left foot in, and you shake it all about.

You to do the Hokey Pokey and you turn yourself around.

That’s what it’s all about.

It’s good to laugh at ourselves from time to time, especially in these days when everything in the news is so serious.

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2020.02.26 | Living with Integrity / Viviendo con Integridad

Similarly, members of organizations need their leaders to do the same. They need to hear and see us expressing our beliefs and values, and aligning them with our daily practices. Organizations that are most successful in identifying and electing leaders with these capabilities are typically those that recruit, hire, and promote folks whose personal vocations, values, and goals are aligned with the organization’s MVV.

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2020.02.23 | Transfigured by Grace

Sometimes, feeling our way in the dark or holding on to our sled as tight as possible is the best we can do. And at other times, we actually have a chance, like Jesus did in today’s gospel reading, to go on retreat, ground ourselves, and put a strategy together for how we will navigate the unknown.

If we get that opportunity to retreat, like Jesus did, I suggest that we take a lesson from the Transfiguration story. I suggest that we gather up those who are nearest and dearest to us, that we ground ourselves in the wisdom of our ancient prophets, that we study and emulate the values and practices of these trusted wise ones, and that we pursue the visions that they have instilled in our heads and heart.

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2020.02.16 | Grow Up

Pain pushes people to the edge, causing them to ask fundamental questions such as “Why is this happening?” and “How can this be fixed?” Pain brings out the best in people along with the worst. Pain strips away all the illusions required to maintain the status quo. Pain begs for change, and when those in its grip find no release on earth, plenty of them look to heaven--including some whose formal belief systems preclude such wishful thinking. Pain makes theologians of us all. If you have spent even one night in real physical pain, then you know what that can do to your faith in God, not to mention your faith in your own ability to manage your life.

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2020.02.09 | Spiritual Wisdom

You see, in today’s chapter, Paul was determined to settle a dispute within the burgeoning Christian community in Corinth. It seems that there were some who thought they were better than others, because they had a fancy education and were more erudite spokespersons on Christian theology. Paul wasn’t having any of this. While he did not discount the value of education, he saw education and formation as a both-and not an either-or, and he was determined to bring some balance to the discourse and the hierarchy of beings in that fledgling congregation.

The way that modern Chrstians sometimes paraphrase Paul’s teaching here is to say that the Christian life is not just about what you know, it’s about who you know.

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2020.01.19 | Called, Equipped, and Empowered

This holiday weekend as our nation observes the birthday of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., we have occasion to reflect on life and contributions of a great man who courageously testified to his faith in the public square.  

In celebrating Dr. King’s birthday, it behooves us to remember that he wasn’t alone in his mission, and we ought not sit on our hands waiting for someone else to carry it on. We must each, in our unique ways, step up and do our part. 

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2020.01.12 | God's Favorites

The story of Jesus’ baptism is central to the celebration of Epiphany. It is also the story on which the Christian sacrament of baptism is founded. In the United Church of Christ, our denominational tradition, and in Protestantism in general, we celebrate two sacraments: Baptism and Eucharist. 

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